{"id":50862,"date":"2022-03-18T08:38:46","date_gmt":"2022-03-18T13:38:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.stress.org\/?p=50862"},"modified":"2024-04-06T06:28:20","modified_gmt":"2024-04-06T06:28:20","slug":"talking-to-your-kids-about-stress","status":"publish","type":"news","link":"https:\/\/www.stress.org\/news\/talking-to-your-kids-about-stress\/","title":{"rendered":"Talking to Your Kids About Stress"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\">\n<div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\">\n<div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Empowering Their Resilience<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>By Cynthia Ackrill<\/strong>, MD, PCC, FAIS<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/stress.org\">For The American Institute of Stress<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.stress.org\/contentment-magazine-fall-2021\"><em>*This is an article from the Fall 2021 issue of\u00a0<\/em><em>Contentment Magazine<\/em><em>.<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s yet another school year plagued with uncertainly, risk, and disruption. Your kids are stressed. You\u2019re stressed. And you\u2019re not sure how to help.<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-23774 alignright jetpack-lazy-image jetpack-lazy-image--handled\" src=\"https:\/\/www.stress.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Capture-2-276x300.png\" sizes=\"(max-width: 276px) 100vw, 276px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.stress.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Capture-2-200x218.png 200w, https:\/\/www.stress.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Capture-2-276x300.png 276w, https:\/\/www.stress.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Capture-2-400x435.png 400w, https:\/\/www.stress.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Capture-2-500x544.png 500w, https:\/\/www.stress.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Capture-2-600x653.png 600w, https:\/\/www.stress.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Capture-2-700x761.png 700w, https:\/\/www.stress.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Capture-2-768x835.png 768w, https:\/\/www.stress.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Capture-2.png 798w\" alt=\"\" width=\"276\" height=\"300\" data-lazy-loaded=\"1\" \/><\/p>\n<p>We know that \u201ccoping confidence,\u201d or feeling like you have the tools and resources to handle a challenge is critical to resilience and whether or not stress is actually toxic.1 But how can you help your kids develop this confidence when you could use a little yourself?<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" data-fontsize=\"18\" data-lineheight=\"27px\">How Stress Shows Up for Kids<\/h3>\n<p>Firstly, it\u2019s important to recognize that though the automatic stress reaction wiring is universal, the way in which repeated or prolonged stress manifests in each parent or child is very variable. Some people are naturally more resilient. This may be a combination of factors: genetics, family stories\/expectations, cultural influences, life experience. Signs and symptoms may show up mentally, emotionally, physically, or behaviorally. The more you learn to recognize your early signs of stress overload, the faster you can make small adjustments to change your experience.<\/p>\n<p>Here are some typical changes you might notice if your children are struggling with stress:<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 Increased crying, irritation<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 Changes in eating or sleeping habits<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 Difficulty concentrating, increased disorganization\/forgetfulness<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 Reverting to outgrown behaviors<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 Increased sense of urgency, frustration<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 Moodiness<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 Change in school performance<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 Change in social interaction, withdrawal<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 Increased aches, pains, or physical symptoms<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 Increased colds or illnesses<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 Substance abuse<\/p>\n<p>Of course, as parents, you see can over-read just about anything you observe, or project your own stress and worries. Take a few long deep breaths, read on, and then decide if you and\/or your child would benefit from learning some new ways to handle stress.<\/p>\n<p>A note about stress vs. anxiety: while they share many characteristics, anxiety is more of an internal reaction that persists past the external stressful situation. There are plenty of resources to learn more about the differences.2 And please, if you have lingering concern that you or your child may really be at risk or are dealing with persistent anxiety or depression, please reach out to consult with a health professional. There are so many helpful, and often non-pharmaceutical, ways to address anxiety.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" data-fontsize=\"18\" data-lineheight=\"27px\">5 Ways to Talk About Stress<\/h3>\n<p>What you say really matters \u2014 to them and to you. And\u2026 don\u2019t over think that! Make stress a safe topic and let your kids know that we are ALL on the path of learning more about how to handle ourselves and our lives. We all make mistakes and hopefully learn from them.<\/p>\n<p>The important part is to stay curious and compassionate and explore together. Sprinkle insights, reflections, and questions in only when appropriate and the mood\/tone feels neutral to happy. This is more about framing stress in a useful way than going on the lecture circuit \u2014 we all know how well a parental agenda can backfire!<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Just do it!<\/strong>\u00a0Do not even try to pretend you can sneak your stress by your kids \u2014 it affects the quality of your interactions and shows up in physiological changes in parent and child.3 Stress is contagious even when you don\u2019t speak it. Humans are wired to pick up each other\u2019s stress, especially the non-verbal cues, because that helps alert us to possible danger. (If I just saw a tiger outside our cave, it\u2019s good for you to get your heartrate ready, too.) Kids tune into your every breath and grimace and tend to take it personally. Remember watching your parent\u2019s faces to see if you were \u201cok?\u201d Kids learn from how you talk about handling life\u2019s pressures.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, I\u2019m not saying tell your 3-year-old son that you are worried about losing your job. But it is helpful for him to hear you say, \u201cMommy feels sort of jumpy\/grumpy right now and needs to do her belly breaths to feel calmer. Want to do them with me?\u201d (Lie down on the floor together, with hands on your bellies \u2014 this can be a great teaching moment and comic relief.)<\/p>\n<p>It is effective to tell your 14-year-old daughter that you are feeling a little overwhelmed right now so you might have been less than patient with her \u2014 you are sorry you didn\u2019t handle your feelings so well. Tell her you know that is a sign that you need to take a little time to clear your head (exercise\/breathwork\/etc.) and think about what matters most and what has worked before. This models how to sort out life challenges. Then ask her what makes her feel more in control when she feels overwhelmed.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Demystify it.<\/strong>\u00a0Stress is part of all life \u2014 not something you can completely avoid. You actually need some stress to get motivated to do your best.4 There is nothing \u201cwrong\u201d with you if you feel it \u2014 you haven\u2019t \u201cfailed life!\u201d It is natural for it to make you feel more alone. It is a normal reaction, your brain protecting you, calling your body to action to keep you safe from a perceived threat, from being \u201cnot ok.\u201d It is critical inside information. Kids like to learn about their brains \u2014 use that!<\/p>\n<p>You get stronger than your stress by learning more about it. Explore together what tends to trigger it for each of you, what you typically feel, how to use these inside feelings (self-awareness) to make adjustments and better choices. Learn tools to find calm in the moment and learn skills to build resilience and strength for the future.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. De-demonize it.<\/strong>\u00a0Research shows it is more powerful to embrace stress than to reduce it.5 Realize that what you say about stress out loud and between your ears colors your perception of it and teaches your children how to label what they feel. Minds are meaning-making machines, assigning meanings to inputs. Is this a mountain (\u201cI\u2019m doomed!\u201d) or a molehill (\u201cI\u2019ve got this!\u201d)? This is your \u201cstress lens.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Becoming aware of and adjusting your lens gives you power to radically alter how much energy you spend on a problem, how much misery you feel, and even how much needless shame compounds the situation. Science also shows that stressed brains tend to be more negative and more \u2018black and white.\u2019 And these tendencies are amplified in a culture of drama, superlatives, and rampant fear.<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-23775 alignright jetpack-lazy-image jetpack-lazy-image--handled\" src=\"https:\/\/www.stress.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Z08TKYHg.jpeg\" sizes=\"(max-width: 256px) 100vw, 256px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.stress.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Z08TKYHg-200x134.jpeg 200w, https:\/\/www.stress.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Z08TKYHg.jpeg 256w\" alt=\"\" width=\"256\" height=\"171\" data-lazy-loaded=\"1\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Recognize this, adjust your own thoughts\/language first, (maybe do you own breathwork first!), then ask questions to help your child put his\/her worries in perspective without minimizing their very real feelings. Figure out what is really at stake, what is still in his\/her control, and what matters most. \u201cI\u2019m curious, on a scale of 1-10, how big is this problem? What feels scary about it? What parts of this can you control? What\u2019s most important?\u201d (Note: this is much easier once you help your child get physically calm, so their smarter brain cells get some blood flow back.)<\/p>\n<p>And while you\u2019re at it, you can de-demonize vulnerability, the source of so much stress and shame. Instead, learn and teach more about the power of vulnerability.6<\/p>\n<p><strong>4. Ask more than tell.<\/strong>\u00a0This one has multiple benefits. Get curious; be specific; use humor and play; minimize judgment. Making the world safe for yourself and others to be fully human is a gift to all.<\/p>\n<p><strong>a. Build self-awareness<\/strong>, critical to resilience, and too often drilled out of us in the pursuit of success. Ask your children what they feel in their bodies when they are worried. Teach them (or use an online guided visualization) to scan their bodies and notice where they feel the stress. Share what you notice.<\/p>\n<p>These feelings become cues to check-in and think about what they need to be \u201cok.\u201d (\u201cWhen my brain gets buzzy, I know I need to do a calming exercise, or I just can\u2019t think as well.\u201d) Ask what they need right now so they learn to better identify and advocate for themselves. Pinterest abounds with engaging charts of feelings and emotions that you can download. The Center for Nonviolent Communication also has great resources, many of which have been put into image form on Pinterest as well.7 (Example: needs wheel for adults.)8<\/p>\n<p><strong>b. Model curiosity<\/strong>, a powerful skill. Getting curious shifts blood flow back to the frontal lobe, giving access to problem solving creativity. It depersonalizes the problem and teaches cognitive flexibility. (\u201cI\u2019m curious, what do you think your teacher was really upset about when he yelled?\u201d)<\/p>\n<p><strong>c. Build self-efficacy<\/strong>\u00a0by helping your child explore how to solve his\/her own problems, brainstorm to get unstuck, access inner knowing, and understand that some of the best learning happens when things don\u2019t go right. Ask what has worked well before? Then ask your child to list as many possibilities ask he can for what he can do now \u2014at least 10 (to get his mind unstuck). You can get silly. Fun always enhances learning, and brainstorming promotes creativity, a true resilience skill. Ask her what she \u201cfeels\u201d is the best solution to promote trusting her instincts. Ask him to play out the possibilities in his mind to teach consequences. (\u201cIf you tell your friend that you saw him cheat, how will you feel? How will he feel? What good might come out of it? What\u2019s at risk?)<\/p>\n<p><strong>5. Leverage Strengths<\/strong>. The human mind is wired with a negative bias,9 keeping you vigilant for possible danger and making problem-focused thinking an easy default. Yet Positive Psychology research reveals that a positive mindset and strengths-based approach will help you and your children cope and bounce back.10 It does take intention and attention to shift from the problem perspective to optimism, but simple questions can make a huge difference in your child\u2019s outlook.11<\/p>\n<p>It is important to note, this is NOT about glossing over difficulties in a \u201cPollyanna\u201d fashion or encouraging magical thinking. It is about authentically bringing attention to strengths that promote self-efficacy and broaden perspective in the moment. Have each family member map his\/her strengths with an easy survey.12 Ask your child what makes him\/her strong? What has worked for him in the past? What strength might be helpful right now? Your questions have so much power!<\/p>\n<p>The old saying, \u201cPlace your own oxygen mask first,\u201d still applies. Breathe! Do that again. And then get creative about partnering with your kids to explore the world of resilience together. You are not supposed to have all the answers, nor a magic wand to erase their stress. But you can start to have conversations that will serve them (and you!) for years to come.<\/p>\n<p>References 1. https:\/\/news.stanford.edu\/2015\/05\/07\/stress-embrace-mcgonigal-050715\/ 2. https:\/\/www.betterhelp.com\/advice\/stress\/what-is-the-difference-between-stress-and-anxiety\/?utm_source=AdWords&amp;utm_medium=Search_PPC_c&amp;utm_term=_b&amp;utm_content=77548444015&amp;network=g&amp;placement=&amp;target=&amp;matchtype=b&amp;utm_campaign=6459244691&amp;ad_type=text&amp;adposi<\/p>\n<p>3. Waters, S. F., Karnilowicz, H. R., West, T. V., &amp; Mendes, W. B. (2020). Keep it to yourself? Parent emotion suppression influences physiological linkage and interaction behavior. Journal of Family Psychology, 34(7), 784\u2013793. https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1037\/fam0000664 4. https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/the-brain-and-emotional-intelligence\/201203\/the-sweet-spot-achievement 5. https:\/\/news.stanford.edu\/2015\/05\/07\/stress-embrace-mcgonigal-050715\/ 6. https:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/brene_brown_the_power_of_vulnerability\/transcript?language=en 7. https:\/\/www.nonviolentcommunication.com\/learn-nonviolent-communication\/feelings\/ 8. https:\/\/ytp.uoregon.edu\/sites\/ytp2.uoregon.edu\/files\/Needs Wheel in PDF.pdf 9. https:\/\/www.psycom.net\/negativity-bias 10. https:\/\/positivepsychology.com\/resilience-in-positive-psychology\/ 11. https:\/\/greatergood.berkeley.edu\/article\/item\/how_to_be_a_strength_based_parent<\/p>\n<p>12. https:\/\/www.viacharacter.org\/character-strengths<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\">\n<div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\">\n<div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-2\">\n<h3 class=\"fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" data-fontsize=\"18\" data-lineheight=\"27px\">ABOUT THE AUTHOR<\/h3>\n<p><strong><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-19478 size-full alignright jetpack-lazy-image jetpack-lazy-image--handled\" src=\"https:\/\/www.stress.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/cindi.jpeg\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.stress.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/cindi-24x24.jpeg 24w, https:\/\/www.stress.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/cindi-48x48.jpeg 48w, https:\/\/www.stress.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/cindi-66x66.jpeg 66w, https:\/\/www.stress.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/cindi-96x96.jpeg 96w, https:\/\/www.stress.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/cindi-100x100.jpeg 100w, https:\/\/www.stress.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/cindi.jpeg 150w\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" data-lazy-loaded=\"1\" \/><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Cynthia Ackrill<\/strong>\u00a0is a leader in the field of leveraging stress for optimal productivity, health, and happiness. With a background in primary care and advanced training in applied neuroscience (a look under the hood!), certification in wellness and leadership coaching, she combines the science of human performance with wisdom, humor, and heart to address the critical relationships between thinking styles, behavior choices, performance capacities, leadership effectiveness, health, joy, and deep career\/life satisfaction. She edits The American Institute of Stress Contentment magazine, is on the faculty of multiple leadership\/coaching programs and contributes widely to the media, including Katie Couric, CNN, Today Show, and Huffington Post.<strong><br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\">\n<div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\">\n<div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-3\">\n<h3 class=\"fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" data-fontsize=\"18\" data-lineheight=\"27px\">Contentment Magazine<\/h3>\n<p>The dictionary defines \u201ccontent\u201d as being in a state of peaceful happiness.\u00a0 The AIS\u00a0magazine is called Contentment because we want all of our guests and members to find contentment in their lives by learning\u00a0about stress management and finding\u00a0what works best for\u00a0each them. \u00a0Stress is unavoidable, and comes in many shapes and sizes that makes being in a state of peaceful happiness\u00a0seem like a very lofty goal.\u00a0 But happiness is easy to find once you are able to\u00a0find ways to manage your stress and keep a healthy\u00a0perspective when\u00a0going though difficult times in life.\u00a0 You will always have stress, but stress does not always have\u00a0you!<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" data-fontsize=\"18\" data-lineheight=\"27px\">Subscribe to our FREE magazines and begin your journey to a happier, healthier and longer life!<\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"fusion-aligncenter\"><a class=\"fusion-button button-flat fusion-button-default-size button-default button-2 fusion-button-default-span fusion-button-default-type\" href=\"https:\/\/www.stress.org\/subscribe\/\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"noopener\"><span class=\"fusion-button-text\">SUBSCRIBE<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Empowering Their Resilience By Cynthia Ackrill, MD, PCC, FAIS For The American Institute of Stress *This is an article from the Fall 2021 issue of\u00a0Contentment Magazine. 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