Not long ago, I sat around the table with 10 leaders from across the country. They represented different industries and stages of their careers, but they had one thing in common:\u00a0stress<\/b>.<\/p>\n
This group had the normal day-to-day stressors of big jobs with high expectations and not enough resources. Some were in organizations\u00a0going through layoffs<\/a>. Many were also experiencing personal challenges with their health, with their children or caregiving for parents. But what had really brought the conversation to the forefront of our day was the uncertainty created in stock markets and marketplaces because of tariffs and cuts to research funding.<\/p>\n \u201cWhat the heck is going on?\u201d asked one man as he rubbed his forehead with both hands. \u201cI cannot keep up.\u201d<\/p>\n After letting everyone blow off a little steam (off-gassing, as a friend calls it), I decided a change of pace was needed. I paired the group up, sent them off on a walk and asked them to share stories about times they\u2019d successfully managed or lowered their stress.<\/p>\n The 10 leaders who returned to the room 30 minutes later were much happier than the 10 who left the room, and of course, they were the same people. As we shared our stories, a host of ideas emerged for how to lower stress, especially in seasons where the stressors keep on coming.<\/p>\n Their list was so great, I wanted to share it with you. Below, I\u2019ve grouped their top 10 ideas into\u00a0three big buckets: 1) work strategies, 2) physical strategies, and 3) mindset strategies.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n Let me warn you: there are no big surprises here. What is here is sound, basic wisdom about how to take care of yourself when it feels like the world is conspiring against you.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s the thing about the basics \u2026 just because they\u2019re familiar doesn\u2019t mean we\u2019re good at them. Or do them consistently. In basketball, free throws are as basic as you can get, but NBA players only hit\u00a078% of their free throw shots<\/a>, and the averages are much lower for field goal percentages. (FWIW, the WNBA\u2019s free throw average is higher!)<\/p>\n In other words, we could all benefit from working on the basics.<\/p>\n There\u2019s a saying that if you see a dead fish floating in a pond, you might think, \u201cWonder what happened to the fish?\u201d If you see a lot of dead fish floating in a pond, you instead think, \u201cWonder what happened to the pond?\u201d<\/p>\n Fixing the pond \u2014 by which we mean the root of the problem \u2014 is the first consideration for lowering stress. Can you do something to change the situation? Likely, your immediate response is \u201cno.\u201d But you\u2019d be surprised at how often\u00a0we think we have no options, when really we just haven\u2019t identified them<\/a>.<\/p>\n Challenge yourself to answer this question:\u00a0What are five things that you could do?\u00a0<\/i>Perhaps you can find a solution, or even just a partial solution that eases some of the pain.<\/p>\n Presuming you can\u2019t solve the problem overall, ask yourself,\u00a0What can I let go of to make more energy for the urgent situation?<\/i><\/p>\n As humans, when we\u2019re under extreme \u201cfight-or-flight\u201d stress, our body pauses some things, like digestion, to devote more energy to the most immediate needs.\u00a0What can you pause?<\/i><\/p>\n Then ask yourself,\u00a0What steps did I take when I faced a similar challenge in the past?<\/i>\u00a0Often, our familiar patterns give us a process to follow as we face new obstacles and opportunities.<\/p>\n The strategies for fighting stress at work help change the problem itself. Physical methods for lowering stress help you build muscle (literally and figuratively) that can sustain you through stressful seasons.<\/p>\n Perhaps the most basic of all the suggestions is to take care of your body \u2014 proper exercise, sleep and nutrition are foundational to having the energy and emotional health to face what comes your way. But like free throw shots, it\u2019s hard to do these things with perfect accuracy.<\/p>\n What are small changes you can make to take better care of your body?\u00a0<\/i>Could you get 15 minutes more sleep each day? A thousand more steps? Or are there other small shifts you could make? One woman in our group of 10 leaders spoke about replacing her nightly glass of wine with a mug of tea.<\/p>\n Stress is our brain\u2019s response to circumstances; countering it often requires moving attention to your body. Therapists and researchers recommend focusing on your five senses to interrupt stressful thoughts.<\/p>\n One easy practice is \u201c54321\u201d:<\/p>\n Pausing to answer those five questions can help you regain your emotional control. And it can be done from your desk at work, or in the car as you drive home.<\/p>\n Speaking of driving home, getting away from work is helpful. Our group of leaders talked about the value of play \u2014 with pets, with kids or even with their imagination as they worked in their gardens. And getaways, even short ones, during stressful times are known to provide the time and space you need to find a new perspective.<\/p>\n Finally, managing your mindset is an essential strategy for lowering stress.<\/p>\n The leaders around the table each had their approaches to taking care of their minds. Some paused each day to ask,\u00a0What am I grateful for?<\/i>, recording the answers in a journal. Others sought out sources of wisdom, like\u00a0The Book of Joy<\/i>\u00a0by the Dalai Lama, or\u00a0The Daily Stoic<\/i>\u00a0by Ryan Holiday. Prayer and meditation were also frequent practices of these leaders.<\/p>\n How am I quieting my mind each day?<\/i>\u00a0This is the central question to consider. When we\u2019re in a place of constant stress and busyness, we lose our ability to find perspective. Even a few daily moments of quieting the mind can help you regain a sense of calm.<\/p>\n What boundaries can I draw?<\/i>\u00a0is another important question. At various points in my career, I\u2019ve made 6 p.m. my work boundary so I could prioritize dinner with my family. One woman in our group spoke about her boundary of not checking her phone while in bed; to stop herself, she places a book of Mary Oliver poetry over the top of her phone, on the nightstand.<\/p>\n Finally, you can find the mantra that works for you and your situation. Some recommended by the group:<\/p>\n What mantras help you recalibrate your thinking?\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n The challenge with writing an article like this is that it\u2019s hard not to take on the voice of an expert. But when it comes to lowering stress and managing anxiety, I\u2019m a novice. One of the things that helps me most is talking with friends who care about the struggles and obstacles I\u2019m facing, but can also validate my strength and capacity.<\/p>\n I hope you hear that validation in this article \u2014 you do have real stressors in your life. And you also have real resources at your fingertips that will help you face them.<\/p>\n Opinions expressed by SmartBrief contributors are their own.<\/em><\/p>\n By\u00a0Amber Johnson<\/a><\/p>\n Original Post SmartBrief<\/a><\/p>\n Image by\u00a0Gerd Altmann<\/a>\u00a0from\u00a0Pixabay<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Stress is nothing new for leaders, but Amber Johnson offers work, physical and mindset advice to help lighten the emotional load. 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